Being Henry: The Fonz . . . and Beyond, written by and narrated by Henry Winkler

 

Audio Book   12h    Narrated by the author, Henry Winkler

Available October 31, 2023

Terrific read/listen. Actually, I highly recommend the audio book because his warmth, charm, and honesty shine forth so strongly from it. His honesty is the thing that struck me immediately. Although I was more of a Richie fan in the Happy Days era, it's easy to assume "tough guy" Fonzi, Henry's character, had it all together and was leading a charmed life. Far from it. That in itself should tell you what an excellent actor he is (Yale trained) as his life had been anything but easy. His struggles with dyslexia are largely known nowadays, including through his own co-authored series of books featuring Hank Zipper, but the emotional toil of his parents' attitude toward him left deep scars. He not only couldn't read but felt like an imposter in the Fonzi role albeit he appreciates what it did for him in the grand scheme of things.

Besides his honesty, he puts himself fully into the narration. You feel exactly the emotion he is channeling at that moment, good, bad, or indifferent. I loved his stories of some early celebrity encounters, including with Paul McCartney (complete with Paul’s very British accent) and Robin Williams. He is quick to laugh at himself, too, noting his awkwardness with the ladies and inability to be quiet when being quiet would have been his wisest move. His optimism shines through, however. I listened to much of this while driving, hence no notes, but one of the things he said that stuck with me was that you don't know what you can do until you try it. 

Rather than allow his childhood to make him bitter, he vowed to be a better father to his own (then future) children. He never felt seen by his own father and he didn't want that to be the case with his own children. Since his wife of now forty-something years, who injects her vantage point thoughts occasionally, had a child when they met, he was certainly put to the test early on and to all reports excelled at bonding with his son-to-be. To-date, he has six grandchildren, too, I believe it said, and makes himself available to them. 

Bottom line, Winkler bares his soul in this memoir and his honestly might change a few minds as to how easy and wonderful it is to be a "star". I like that he name-drops the countless friends and entertainment figures who have figured in his career in credit of their help and support. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I'm sure I knew he was pivotal in developing and producing Macgyver but simply hadn't kept up with his other roles aside from his books and award-winning role as Barry, so I learned quite a bit from this memoir.  

That he treasures his continued close friendship with Ron Howard is impressive, especially given the tension that could have existed between the two when Henry's role in "Happy Days" was given more air time than that of Howard's role, which was originally the starring role. That speaks highly for both men and after reading, well, listening to this book, I wish Henry Winkler were my friend. Thanks #NetGalley and #MacmillanAudio for this intimate introduction to Henry Winkler the man, not the character we see on television. I liked him.