Low-Hanging Fruit: Sparkling Whines, Champagne Problems, and Pressing Issues from My Gay Agenda, by Randy Rainbow

 Publication October 8,2024

How this man manages to travel and tour is beyond me. Not only is he introverted, he suffers from anxiety and what many of us would call "being too nice". People may walk all over him or annoy him to death, often just by trying too hard, but he still feels compelled to, as my grandmother would say, "play nice". I cracked up at his effort to right a perceived slight to an airport greeter and guide. Being famous or, as he notes sorta famous, has its perks but also annoyances, too.  That's actually good in this case as it gave him lots of things to whine and be aggravated about, his words not mine. I mean, re-read the title. That says it all. Randy Rainbow, far from living the worry/stress-free live of a star, seems to be in a constant state of anxiety. Even worse, despite the rider in his contract, unlike those of mega-stars, his simple requests are rarely fulfilled. I somehow doubt Taylor Swift would be shorted a humidifier in her hotel room if she requested one but, well, you'll see just how far being famous but not on the A-List gets you.

While I'm not sure I enjoyed this one as much as the first book, if you read closely you'll pick up more about what the real Randy Rainbow is really like. He's insecure, a dreamer, fretful, introverted, anxious when he has to travel, wants to please, and, well, the list goes on. The running theme of this book is, of course, of him complaining, so I'm happy to say he does in his usual funny way. Is it possible to be both light-hearted and serious? Somehow he manages. I've read countless books by comedians and they often appear to be some of the saddest people around, so a hint of melancholy isn't a surprise. He's still looking for the one true love but does adore his cat, Tippi, who gets a chapter to sound off about life with Randy, and obviously adores his mother, Gwen. She has a chapter, too, though she denies losing him as a child at a mega entertainment complex (hint, Randy lived in FL prior to moving to NYC). There are even a couple chapters in verse. Nope, not telling. You're just going to have to read the book.

Bottom line, I thoroughly enjoyed spending more time with Randy Rainbow. While I wouldn't want to live his life (although I'd have a constant supply of chocolate on my contract rider), it's a fascinating one to visit. I do feel compelled to offer a trigger warning to those offended by sexual talk, although he handles his less than stellar romantic episodes in a light, breezy way. I actually found myself laughing along with him, even when he delved into his bodily worries. Hey, admit it. We all wish we could be more perfect. Thanks #StMartin'sPress for allowing me to share an early peek at the current status of Randy Rainbow. I know he's on tour as I type, so hope the hotels remember that humidifier and his water.

A Creek, a Hill, and a Forty: The early years of Alaska's Matanuska Colony, seen through a colonist's letters home, by Ray Bonnell

Publication August 15, 

I live in the area. As both a resident and former history major/teacher/buff, I thoroughly enjoyed this look at life back in the "good ol' days". 

Of courses, as the book tells us, those "good ol' days" weren't always so good. I've read many books on the creation of the Matanuska Colony but this one, based on the letters home from colonist Margaret Miller, provides the personal touch many others don't offer. That she was quite detailed and wrote well is another plus. Nor does she shy away from the more difficult, even controversial topics involved, ranging from the difficulties faced initially.... they lived in tents until homes were built and life was difficult… as well as the various organizational issues and, sigh, political issues that increasingly became a part of her family's life.  It's actually rather fascinating.

Yet, I found that it was the more mundane, personal touches that hit home the most. People they'd formed friendships with giving up and leaving. Lack of not just jobs, but even those available were usually some distance away, plus limited educational opportunities for their children. The fact that winning a single milk cow in a drawing might be the difference between success and, well, going hungry. In other words, peeks into the real lives of these pioneers. I did laugh at how little has changed in politics, too, as I read the section of the "Ice Worms" vs the producers, ie the colonists. The tales of vehicles having to be replaced due to the rough, early roads. And we complain about pot holes? Somehow I believe they'd marvel at even the most primitive road today that runs through the area. And, oh, the complaints of dogs running loose throughout the community. Hmm, where have I heard this lately? In other words, a personal look at life in the not-so-long-ago "good ol' days".

Bottom line, while this obviously won't be as personal for many readers, if you're a history buff or just curious about what life in Alaska was once like, you'll enjoy this well-written, nicely presented story. The author also includes list of the original colonists and the state they originated from, as well as a lengthy list of sources used. Something tells me I may be driving over toward Palmer in the near future to check out some of what I'll call "that was then, this is now" comparisons to the old b/w photos generously used throughout the book.

Like Mother, Like Son: From the Deepest Despair of Mental Illness to the Grittiest End-Of-Life Battle with Metabolic Syndrome, by Stephen Bryant Biles , Daniel Fredman M.D. (foreword)

 

Since I read this one in spurts, between other books I've committed to review, and dealing with the real world, my apologies if this doesn't quite flow. It's an intense read but one that anyone who has ever dealt with mental illness in the family can relate to. Needless to say, I flashed back to my own experiences dealing with dementia in the family, so it hit close to home at times. 

It begins with the recounting of the author's mother, Shirley Ellen Biles, being taken away in a straight jacket.  The author is about 8-9 at the time and has grown up dealing with his mother's breakdowns much of his life. I'm honestly impressed that the author can recount this story so well given all the emotions that had to be riling within him. He mentions his mother turning on his father violently, striking out and shrieking at him, something I experienced first-hand, so I could definitely relate to the emotions and I was an adult at the time. Paranoid schitzophrenia and the dementia that I experienced aren't the same but seem to have shared many of the most visible characteristics. Treatments were primitive by today's standards but doctors did seem to work out a medical treatment that allowed Shirley to maintain her core self for longer and longer periods. I won't detail them as, quite frankly, the meds used were unfamiliar with me and I don't want to misspeak. 

The book is basically broken down into three parts, perseverance, phoenix, and post struggles. We're given an intimate look at the patient's prior life, including her childhood and marriage. To complicate matters, Stephen's father was an alcoholic, dealing with his own demons, hardly preparing him to cope with his wife's mental illness. His presence, however, somewhat shielded Stephen until 1981, when his father passed away. I won't detail the journey as not only does the blurb do an good job of covering the basics but there are already some excellent, detailed reviews out there, but Stephen's life changed forever. Manic depression and periods of paranoia and hyper-energy from his mother followed, and that's just the tip of the iceberg facing the Biles family. Stephen's unwavering devotion to his mother never failed, however, even when forced to leave one profession and begin another that, initially, was anything but a success. That would change but that is where dogs began to play a major role in the journey. But, first, a few more details....

One aspect of this journey to save his mother from the depths of despair that I'd highlight is his willingness to work closely with the medical professionals involved in Shirley's treatment. As noted, her illness, even today, isn't a simple one to treat. Medicines and treatments had to be fine-tuned and adapted as Shirley's situation changed. Dr. Fredman, who wrote the foreward, was one of the doctors involved early on, btw. Note, it's predicted one in four Americans will experience some form of mental health issue in their lifetime, so this is a story that could apply to any of us. It's a story that will both warm and hurt your heart but you'll admire the love and trust that existed between mother and son throughout. It isn't always an easy story to read, either, so keen those tissues handy. Shirley's intense drive to get better and Stephen's willingness to sacrifice to meet their mutual goals are inspiring, however. I should note the basic goals, too: consistant, meaningful exercise, maintaining social contact, and being able to feel independent, ie like she was having a say in her own life and treatment, were at the top of the list. Through it all, Stephen faced the task of keeping not only her motivated but, of course, himself. I didn't note the exact words but at one point he says he was both her drill sergeant and couch as well as her lifeline and inspiration. 

As for the dogs, they do play a role in the story. When forces to leave his job behind, Stephen found himself "going to the dogs", cliche that it is. The family had always had dogs and he ultimately decided to try to make a go of it starting a doggie day care. Dogs had always been a huge part of the family's life and it seemed a natural. But, it wasn't easy. You'll meet many of the dogs that passed through their lives, all leaving a mark. Initially forced to take any and all jobs caring for the dogs, even if it involved driving distances in the middle of the night, Stephen had a secret weapon. His mother. Shirley, who customers seem to have come to think of as part of their canine's family, too, played a huge role, often helping care for the more difficult dogs. Do be forewarned, since this story covers more than two decades, it is inevitable that some of these dogs will pass during the story so, as noted early, keep those tissues close although, quite frankly, I found these dog stories and roles more inspiring than saddening. 

Bottom line, this is a story that as difficult as some sections were to read, deserves to be read. While sadly, even after beating back her mental issues, Shirley was than faces with medical issues that are also shared, it's an inspiring story. Anyone who has ever felt despair while dealing with the illness or caring for those it has impacted, will know both that they aren't alone and that as hopeless as things may seem at times, there is hope. I don't feel like this quick overview has done justice to the book but hope many will give it a read. You'll come away wanting to hug your loved ones closer and, yes, that includes your furry family friends.

Musings of a Horse Farm Corgi, by Leslie McDonald

 

I stumbled across this one nearly a year ago while searching "corgi" on Amazon and couldn't resist that cute corgi face on the cover. My Daisy isn't a fluffy but has cute in spades, so was curious to see how this little one fared on a horse farm. I'm not sure if Daisy's ever seen a horse or not, but she has seen moose, bigger and potentially far more dangerous than a horse, and remains convinced she can take care of them. Uh, right, Daisy.

In any case, this is a cute, fun story told from the perspective of Beamer, the puppy star of the book. He gets his name due to his sunny, get it, sun beam, attitude. The author did a great job capturing the inherent corgi attitude and takes us from the puppy's birth to its time on the horse farm. Knowing how Daisy's mind always seems to be working, it was fun to see Beamer's thoughts as he tries to figure out and then manipulate first his new humans, two laid back labs, and, oh, my an electric barrier fence. He lost that round. He even makes friends of sorts with a special horse and frets when it gets colic. Don't worry, the horse was okay. You'll see him work his wiles on everyone from the riding students to the other canines and eventually emerge as "Corgi in Charge". Like all corgis, he's a charmer. There are b/w photos throughout to take you through his adventures. One thing I learned was that fluffy corgis aren't in demand no matter how cute they are, at least if the potential owner wants to show or breed. I've always found them adorable but given that Daisy is simply a corgi mix and I had no intentions of adding another puppy to the world, I'd never delved that deeply into such breed standards. 

Bottom line, a fun read that will give wannabe corgi owners some insight into how the corgi mind seems to work. Kudos to the author for capturing Beamer's thoughts so well. This was published in 2012, so should be an easy find on Amazon for those like me that navigate to all things corgi. The best part was, of course, reading it with my Daisy curled up next to me.

My Mama, Cass: A Memoir, by Owen Elliot-Kugell

 

 Publication May 7, 2023

Having recently read "All the Leaves Are Brown", by Scott G. Shea, which goes into great detail about the rise and fall of the Mamas and Papas, I hesitated to read this one, I must admit. I mean, how much more could it possible tell me? Oh, I'm so glad I didn't heed my hesitation..

Whereas Shea's book focuses on the dynamics and lives of all the group members, the focus here is on not just Cass Elliott but how her life and death impacted her daughter, Owen, who was only seven when Cass died. Much to her credit, Owen, who never even knew who her biological father was until a decade plus past Cass's death, neither ignores nor elevates the '60s lifestyle her mother lead. She draws on friends and family members to flesh out the woman she was only beginning to know before Cass died in London during a solo tour. You'll recognize many of those names, I'm sure. There are some very personal memories, too, such as acknowledging that she still has the ABC blanket with animals on it that was one of her last physical connections to her mother or remembering how the jangle of the bracelets Cass wore reminded her of wind chimes. In other words, this is a book written from love.

I won't detail Cass's life other than say she learned early to hide her hurt with humor, something that allowed her to carry on despite cruel jokes at the expense of her weight. Owen does clarify that the rumor of what caused her mother's death, that dang sandwich, were false. Raised by her aunt and grandmother, Owen's life wasn't an easy one. Nothing like one my think life of a superstar's child might be. The book doesn't point fingers, nothing salacious about anyone, but doesn't hide the fact that Owen had to have therapy as a child and struggled in school. She did seem to inherit her mother's creativity and love of music, however, and even came close to being a part of.....nope, not telling. You'll recognize the group name, however. 

Owen never hesitates to reveal her feelings of vulnerability, whether as a struggling youth or trying to connect with her biological father. I came away from the book admiring her greatly. She's taken an unflinching look but endearing look at her mother, writing with love, and has a smooth, easy writing style. If you have any interest in the 1960's lifestyle/music scene, you will thoroughly enjoy this book. So many what ifs, too, from "What if Cass had lived?" to "What if Owen had grown up not only with her mother's love but surrounded by the music scene?" or even "What if she'd known her father as a child?" In other words, this book makes you think while sharing a very personal story. Thanks #NetGalley and #HatchetteBooks for allowing me to read it early. I've always marveled at that remarkable voice of Cass Elliott, so I thoroughly enjoyed this far more-personal-than-most peek into her life and am delighted to see her daughter's voice emerge as a writer.

Daisy approves this book

Caught this cute pose with Daisy and an old book I just picked up to read. 2012 publication date. Haven't done more than flip through to glance at a few pix....I've got another book I want to finish before I let myself get detoured.... but looks like it'll be a fun read.

Four Thousand Paws: Caring for the Dogs of the Iditarod: A Veterinarian's Story , by Lee Morgan

 

Publication Feb. 27, 2024

I should tell you up front that I came to this book with far more info than the average reader. True, it's pretty obvious I came for the dogs but I not only live in Alaska, but about two miles from Iditarod Headquarters. Not only that, I've attended several Iditarod races and have even ridden the runners of a sled. As Morgan reveals in the book, it's a rush. Needless to say, I was psyched to get this book to review. It definitely brings the dogs and race to life. Kudos, Lee Morgan.

For those unfamiliar with the race, it officially covers 1,049 miles through some of the most isolated, challenging terrain and weather one can imagine. Temps in the negative fifties aren't uncommon, not are encounters with moose. Let's just say, if a moose takes a notion to take offense at your team and charges at them, it's like being hit from the side by a good-sized pickup truck. There are other predators, of course, which is why most mushers carry a weapon in their sled. All this while covering a trail that may be marginal, not to mention with dangerous drifting snow, frozen streams or overflow, brutal stumps and snags, deep ruts from teams that have gone before you or maybe worse, no sign of the trail at all. You will cross the frozen Bering Sea as the race nears the end, too. The musher has to depend on their dogs to find that trail since, at times, in a blizzard or episode of gale force winds, the musher may be virtually running blind. Needless to say, each checkpoint, there are usually 26, is a welcome site. 

And that where Morgan and the team of vets that are out in conditions not much better than those that face the mushers come in. This is both his story and counter against those who claim the dogs are mistreated. Quite frankly, even with my relatively strong background in all things Iditarod, I found his story both informative and fascinating. It's a fun read, almost like you're sitting by a campfire listening to him share his experiences (and misadventures). His sense of humor shines through, too, adding to the enjoyment. 

This is where I'm duct taping my fingers to keep from going on endlessly about the contents because, well, you need to read this book and enjoy it in its entirety. You'll learn a great deal about not only the race itself but the standards the vets and mushers are held to. They're not working out of a climate controlled office, I should note. I've been to checkpoints and found myself nodding as I read about, say, the tent at Finger Lake Checkpoint. Yep, spot on, Lee Morgan. Getting to Nome is a definitely a challenge and, as Morgan notes, while the teams may move along, the planes moving the various teams of vets don't fly when the weather isn't safe, either, so you can be in some places awhile. But, what a rush. And, oh, the dogs. Their sheer joy and the love they share. You'll smile as you read about his vet check experiences, both before the race and along the trail as he meets some of the most remarkable canine characters ever. 

My thanks to trail vet #LeeMorgan, #WWNorton&Company - #Liveright for allowing me this sneak peek behind the scenes. Even this Alaskan once immersed in all things Iditarod learned something new and came away with a smile.

The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore, by Stan Zimmerman

 

Publication Feb. 13, 2024

This book made me grin, laugh, and occasionally roll my eyes. It also made me cry. Like Kahlil Gibran in his "The Prophet" (can you tell what I've been rereading in spare moments), Zimmerman sings the praises of his mother and her role in his life throughout the book. She'd supported his dreams and helped him become his best self. Then she got dementia. Like Zimmerman, I, too, dealt with losing my mother to this awful disease that takes their presence from you while the body still remains. He describes it as watching the light dim in her eyes. That struck a bell, as did his admission that he felt both sadness and relief at her passing. She was no longer lost in the darkness of forgotten memories but he admits his best, most important role in life had been being a "son" and he was devastated. I needed a tissue. 

As for the rest of the book, it was a delight to read about his youthful passion for not just acting but writing plays that he put on in his basement. I flashed back to Randy Rainbow's book where he talked about basically getting his start in his own bedroom, doing it all, and grinned. I hope the two of them have met. Zimmerman was talented enough to be invited to a prestigious summer theater program before he'd even reached the required age but ultimately found him way primarily as a writer. 

While it was interesting to hear about his experiences as a quite young, gay man writing for The Golden Girls series, it was equally interesting to be given a, so to speak, behind the scenes look at how much goes into not just the creation of such series but the difficulty of getting even the best ideas on the air or stage. And, yes, tons of names are dropped that you'll recognize, from the cast of Golden Girls through his experiences in theater. Unlike many writers, I'll note he largely worked with a collaboration for most of his career, Jim Berg. Together, they are credited with some of the more memorable scenes on film, including the infamous lesbian kiss on the Roseanne Barr show. The behind the scenes look at that show alone is fascinating. 

Through it all, Zimmerman's almost conversational, often self-deprecating wit and words flow. It's an easy read and you're almost sure to encounter personalities you'll recognize. Zimmerman would have won me over with his love and respect for his mother and her role in his life, not to mention his acknowledgement of the role so many women had played, I'd like to think he's someone I'd have found intriguing even without that aspect. I mean, the man even danced behind Rudolph Nureyev in the glorious days of his youth. Andy Warhol even found him worthy of taking photos of at a party. Of course, he didn't recognize Warhol and told him to stop. 

Fortunately, he kept a journal most of his life, so such experiences are bolstered in the telling by his thoughts from the moment. Careful, wannabe show/play writers may even pick up a few hints as they read. Bottom line, a great, fun read. Thanks #NetGalley and #IndigoRiverPublishing for inviting me to meet Stan Zimmerman. I thoroughly enjoyed meeting him and vicariously living through a few of his experiences and my heart definitely goes out to him for his mother. Made me want to hug him and tell him "Everything will be okay".

Being Henry: The Fonz . . . and Beyond, written by and narrated by Henry Winkler

 

Audio Book   12h    Narrated by the author, Henry Winkler

Available October 31, 2023

Terrific read/listen. Actually, I highly recommend the audio book because his warmth, charm, and honesty shine forth so strongly from it. His honesty is the thing that struck me immediately. Although I was more of a Richie fan in the Happy Days era, it's easy to assume "tough guy" Fonzi, Henry's character, had it all together and was leading a charmed life. Far from it. That in itself should tell you what an excellent actor he is (Yale trained) as his life had been anything but easy. His struggles with dyslexia are largely known nowadays, including through his own co-authored series of books featuring Hank Zipper, but the emotional toil of his parents' attitude toward him left deep scars. He not only couldn't read but felt like an imposter in the Fonzi role albeit he appreciates what it did for him in the grand scheme of things.

Besides his honesty, he puts himself fully into the narration. You feel exactly the emotion he is channeling at that moment, good, bad, or indifferent. I loved his stories of some early celebrity encounters, including with Paul McCartney (complete with Paul’s very British accent) and Robin Williams. He is quick to laugh at himself, too, noting his awkwardness with the ladies and inability to be quiet when being quiet would have been his wisest move. His optimism shines through, however. I listened to much of this while driving, hence no notes, but one of the things he said that stuck with me was that you don't know what you can do until you try it. 

Rather than allow his childhood to make him bitter, he vowed to be a better father to his own (then future) children. He never felt seen by his own father and he didn't want that to be the case with his own children. Since his wife of now forty-something years, who injects her vantage point thoughts occasionally, had a child when they met, he was certainly put to the test early on and to all reports excelled at bonding with his son-to-be. To-date, he has six grandchildren, too, I believe it said, and makes himself available to them. 

Bottom line, Winkler bares his soul in this memoir and his honestly might change a few minds as to how easy and wonderful it is to be a "star". I like that he name-drops the countless friends and entertainment figures who have figured in his career in credit of their help and support. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I'm sure I knew he was pivotal in developing and producing Macgyver but simply hadn't kept up with his other roles aside from his books and award-winning role as Barry, so I learned quite a bit from this memoir.  

That he treasures his continued close friendship with Ron Howard is impressive, especially given the tension that could have existed between the two when Henry's role in "Happy Days" was given more air time than that of Howard's role, which was originally the starring role. That speaks highly for both men and after reading, well, listening to this book, I wish Henry Winkler were my friend. Thanks #NetGalley and #MacmillanAudio for this intimate introduction to Henry Winkler the man, not the character we see on television. I liked him.

The Wonderful World of James Herriot: A Charming Collection of Classic Stories, by James Herriot, Rosie Page

 

Publication October 24, 2023

It all started with a dog....

Full review tomorrow. Dealing with a sore wrist right now that needs to rest but will say that this was a joy to read. Whether you're a long-time fan or new to James Herriot, you'll find something to love in here. Back tomorrow....promise....with details.

Floor Sample, by Julia Cameron

 

Publication August 8, 2023

Absolutely fascinating, well written, and disturbing. I can't say I enjoyed reading this but I kept coming back. I couldn't stay away. I wanted to see what she did next. There were a lot of nexts, too, as she seemed to flit from place to place, person to person, and genre to genre...mastering most of the last. As for the rest, uh, not so much.

I won't detail Cameron's life here as it's not only well-documented but others will have surely done so. Cameron, now well into her 70s, wrote this book when she was 57. She had a childhood full of horses, books, and freedom, but often dominated by "God says..." guilt and guilt trips. She lived close to the edge and, sadly, went over the edge. It's those times that make this a disturbing read as you're taken inside her drugged out or sedated by alcohol mind. In a sense, she was held hostage by not just her mind but her talent, which she has used in various venues, ranging from books like this to movies and theater. Recalling the scene where she details running out of the house in a panic naked, with an aide having to chase her down and cover her with a sheet, will horrify and astonish readers, who'll immediately feel either sympathy or horror. Honestly, Maybe both. 

Yes, reading this left me exhausted and disturbed. I found myself breaking down my reading stints into smaller segments, some at obvious breaks, others because, quite frankly, what I was reading left me so unsettled. Yet, she was painting a vivid picture of her life, which included not just growing up in the free spirited hippy age but name-drops famous names who dropped in and out of her life in a fascinating way. Some, like the father of her daughter, former husband Martin Scorsese, who was making Taxi Driver when they married, left, but many mentors and even former addicts were devoted to helping her defeat her demons. She drew people to her, yes, but she also drove them away.

Bottom line, as noted, not an easy read but one well worth making...even if you have to divide reading sessions up. As a former horse crazy girl, now dog person, I had to admire her devotion to her beloved animals. Even when her demons forced her to move and more again and again, her animals were always a priority. That tells me lots about her inner core, her true being. The Julia Cameron that I (and so many others) thought we knew and admired from her The Right to Write, is in there amidst all the chaos. It took nerve to write this book, which I admire. I'm not sure I could be so open and brave. Thank you #NetGalley and #StMartin'sPress - #StMartin'sEssentials for allowing me this look into the real Julia Cameron. It's definitely a book that will stay with me for a long time.

Chasing Dreams: The True Story of the Youngest Female Tevis Cup Champion, by Sanoma Blakeley

 

Publication July 25, 2023

Although I was a horse crazy girl, I never tried endurance riding. I just didn't have the discipline. A couple friends did, however, try a few far shorter races than the Tevis Cup and I utilized some of their memories in one of the first stories I ever sold. Therefore, you can probably understand why I actually spent some moments just looking at the cover and going, "Wow!" in my mind. I'm happy to say, the book itself was a "Wow!", too. 

I also spent some time chuckling as I read the history of the Tevis Cup. I live in Alaska where sled dogs and the Iditarod race are frequent topics and the background of the races have similarities. Both started to prove the toughness of the animals in comparison to those of the past. Both take place in isolated, difficult to transverse territory with few spectators. Frequent stops are required for vet checks where the animals can be pulled by the vet for any variety of issues. Of course, in the Tevis Cup, unlike the Iditarod with its teams of dogs, your horse being eliminated by the vet means you are done whereas in the Iditarod, assuming the rest of the team is healthy, mushers may continue with simply fewer dogs. The animals come first, however, whether horse or dog in these contests. "To Finish Is To Win" is a motto of both, I note.

Sanoma Blakeley was fifteen when she entered and won the Tevis Cup but had been riding and competing since, well, almost forever. Horses were her life. a passion she shared with her family. And, oh, btw, her father and mother met in Ketchikan, Alaska, another Alaska tie for me. More amazingly, Goober, the horse that would carry her to victory in the Tevis Cup was found on Craigslist for free. I won't detail the race, part of the fun is feeling like you're in the saddle with Sanoma as they transverse trails with 36,000' of elevation and so narrow your stirrup scraps the side of the hill with a thousand foot drop off on the other side. Take a look at the cover photo if you have any doubt of the physical and mental strain on both the horse and rider. 

Yet, it's the bond between Sanoma and Goober, in particular, that pulls you in. I was charmed by her early tales of life with Midnight, that first horse that teaches us how to live and love horses, but Goober was special. If you don't feel anxiety and come near tears at the end. you've simply never had that undying bond with an animal yet. 

Highly recommended to anyone who loves horses, any animal really, and a good, "can-do" story. My sincere thanks to #NetGalley and #SantaMonicaPress for giving me this sneak peak. I absolutely loved her love for family and deep love and respect for all the horses in her life, not just Goober. I haven't been on a horse in years but suddenly felt the urge to go at least share a carrot or two with one.

Wine Witch on Fire: Rising from the Ashes of Divorce, Defamation, and Drinking Too Much, by Natalie MacLean

 

Available May 9 (Canada) and June 7 (US)

First, an admission. I know next to nothing about the wine industry, its marketing or community. I know the issues of women climbing the ladder in a largely male dominated area, however. That said, while I found the details of MacLean's climb as a wine writer and the obstacles she faced specific to that industry interesting, especially while dealing with the devastation of divorce, it was the human element that attracted me.

I'm not going to detail the story, others will have done a far better job of it than I could. Instead, I'm simply going to share some of my own reactions as I read. First, I was impressed by the brutal honestly of Natalie MacLean. She somehow came across as vulnerable and emotional while still showing strength and determination. Her husband's unexpected declaration that he wanted a divorce, during the Christmas holidays, no less, closely followed by attacks on her career by rivals, left her stunned. Yet, even as her world whirled out of control, her first thought was of her then young son. No matter what, she wanted to protect him. That made me like her and want to see her come out ahead. Mother first, business woman second, in other words. This is the story of how she got to that point and how she moved on, often stumbling, questioning herself, unsure, uneasy, yet determined to turn this disaster into victory. I wanted to see her overcome, so to speak.

It's an often emotional, intense read. She shares words of wisdom from friends and counselors. Given recent media attention to mental issues and depression where those seeking help are often scoffed at for being weak, she did what she needed to do. That said, she worried that people would think her a psychological exhibitionist by sharing her roller-coaster ride in a book, but pressed on. You'll like her counselor. It's an intensely personal story, one that will dazzle you one moment with peeks into the glamour of the wine industry, with hints on tasting and evaluating wine, but also tell you how she came to write about wine in the first place. Yes, it's all there. Laid out bare. 

Quite frankly, I've barely touched the surface of all I learned, experienced, and, yes, felt as I read. Her personal story isn't mine and while our worlds seem far, far apart, human nature and experiences are universal. Be prepared for quite the ride as you read. It won't be an easy read but you won't regret one moment of it.

A Higher Loyalty: Truth, Lies, and Leadership, by James Comey

 

I actually read this back in 2018 when it first came out. Was prepared to be at best neutral but actually found myself liking the guy and what he had to say. He touched on his own background, too, including being bullied as a child, and the surely demoralizing period of time when he worked for and was fired by Donald Trump. 

I made a long string of posts but here are just a few takeaways I noted on my Facebook page: 

A bit more from Comey book.

1. Comey constantly revisits need of FBI to stay at arm's length from politics. Trump making that difficult. Comey's assessment of him was that he seemed to be "a deeply insecure man, which made it impossible for him to demonstrate humility, and he seemed very unlikely to be confident and humble enough to ask the 'What am I missing' question at the heart of sound judgment.

2. "There has always been a line. The intelligence community does facts; the White House does politics and spin, and does it on its own." Concerns that Trump team trying to pull FBI into that spin.

3.When told about the Russian dossier and allegations, Trump's reaction was dismissive. Seemed to ignore Comey's assurances that whether it happened or not, the FBI didn't care. That what was important was that it not be used against Trump somehow, to influence him in any way. Trump's reaction was to ask if he looked like the kinda guy who needed prostitutes. Without it being brought up, Trump segued into the many sexual assault allegations against him. Meeting lasted maybe five minutes and Comey met Jared for the first time on the way out of the offices. The news about the dossier was soon leaked and not by FBI.

Oh, I could say so much but, well, this has been hashed to death on the media. It is pretty clear tho' that Trump just doesn't have the whatever it takes to see the big picture and accept that everything that happens isn't about him, him, him.

 

Another Facebook post the same day"

I .read a bit more of the Comey book last night. Notes from it:

1. Russia "sought to undermine confidence in the American democratic enterprise--to dirty us up so that our election process would no longer be an inspiration to the world." Boy, my take, Trump is sure helping them.

2. Putin wanted to hurt Clinton cos blamed her for comments made in Dec. 2011 that he felt were a sort of secret signal to Russian opposition to criticize and oppose him. Me, "Gads, is he as paranoid as Trump?"

3. Putin wanted to help Trump who Putin appreciated for his willingness to cast aside ideals rather than stand on principle. Me, "Gee, nice tribute there, Trump."

 

More: 

Comey book reactions. This one, in particular, struck me: Comey doesn't recall ever seeing Trump laugh. "I suspect his apparent inability to do so is rooted in deep insecurity, his inability to be vulnerable, or to risk himself by appreciating the humor of others which, on reflection, is really sad in a leader, and a little scary in a president."

He does recall one sorta laugh, Trump's reaction to someone in an audience shouting out that a dog barking must be Hillary. 

 

 

The War Came to Us: Life and Death in Ukraine, by Christopher Miller

 

 Available July 18, 2023

This gives us a front row seat for what has going on in Ukraine the day of the Russian invasion. Miller was there. Not only do we get a peek at a text Alexander Vindman sent to him just hours before the first cruise missiles began falling, we get to see the behind the scenes reactions of not just the Ukrainians, many of whom had been through this before in 2014, but the media. They always look so cool and calm when the "on the air" light goes on but, well, that is definitely not always easy, as we learn here.

Maybe equally importantly, the author shares his years of experience and insight from living and working in Ukraine for years. You'll get to know the people, the average Ukrainian, and get some insight into their pre-attack take on Russia and government in general. You'll also learn things like why the Russians were so determined to capture the last hold-outs in that salt mine, so to speak, and the impact that defiance had on the ultimate plan. You'll also hear harrowing accounts of some of those taken hostage and shipped to Russia, including endless rounds of hours and hours of interrogation and being forced in front of television cameras. It isn't pretty and you will sense Miller's genuine concern for the people involved and others he struggles to keep tabs on.

And, when you aren't focused on war, you'll learn about favorite foods, best places to eat (wonder how many still exist?), dress, and bits of the language and lore. Miller even sneaks in history lessons as he writes of his own learning curve in the Ukraine after originally sent there by the Peace Corps in 2009. He was sent to the Donbas. That saga in itself is worth a book. Oh, what they must have thought of that bearded young American that one child dubbed Uncle Hedgehog, who rode everywhere on a no-frills bicycle. 

I won't detail the rest of the war related information since, sadly, it isn't exactly unknown. What is great about this book, though, is that through his seemingly idle memory sharing, several "whys" emerge as to why such and such was done or the reactions. 

Bottom line, I feel smarter and far better informed for reading this book. My sincere thanks to #NetGalley and #BloomburyUSA for making it available.

Norma's War: a WWII Memoir, by Norma Thoeming, Gary Metivier (Editor)

 

Publication June 13,2023

It was a time of "an odd combination of adventure, excitement, fear, and terror" is how Norma Thoeming best described growing up during WWII. I found it a riveting read in it's basic simplicity. It was also hard not to find my thoughts straying to the children of Ukraine who are facing the same terrors while dealing with normal growing pains. 

Norma's  story, told to Gary Metivier, isn't fancy. The chapters are short, remembered in simple terms, and allow us to peek into the world of Norma's Bedford, England, life both before and after the war. Parents, can you imagine the horror of having your children handed a gas mask? Hearing that their school group was fired on from a passing German plane? Dealing with refugees being housed in your home? And that doesn't even include the anxiety and fears of an everyday life that without warning could suddenly include bombs being dropped on your neighborhood, one leaving a huge crater in front of your home. Life at home wasn't easy, either, with a troubled mother who simply walked out on them at one point, not to mention an energetic brother, full of mischief, who seems to have a knack for setting things on fire, all by accident, not that it made much difference. Norma's life as a working class girl wouldn't have been easy at any time but when the war came to their town, life was never to be the same.

To be honest, as noted, I found myself liking this book more than I had expected. Given how many WWII related books I've read in my life, that is a high compliment, particularly as it left me thinking about it long after I'd finished. I definitely recommend "Norma's War" to both history buffs and those wondering what life was really like when you hear about wartime England. Heck, read if you like a good story with interesting characters. Characters who were real people.

You'll be left with questions, of course. Remember, this is about a child's memories. And, I mean, was there really such a thing as a "siren suit"? I'm going to have to look that one up. In the meantime, thanks to #NetGalley and #LegacyBookPress - #IBPA for introducing me to Norma Thoeming. I'm all the better for it.

Starter Dog: My Path to Joy, Belonging and Loving This World, by Rona Maynard

Combo review for ebook and audio (8 hrs.   Narrated by author)

Rona Maynard doesn't know it, but we're kindred souls. Kindred dog people. Kindred souls who found their best selves "after dog". Unlike Maynard, true, I grew up around dogs. Heck, I grew up on a farm. There were always dogs, not to mention cats, sheep, calves, and assorted ducks and rabbits. Due to the circumstances of life, however, aside from my horses, the dogs were always the family dogs. Never dependent or particularly attached to me. That changed after my parents' deaths, when a teacher friend convinced me I needed a dog. I got one. A husky/collie mix. That dog ultimately lead me to Alaska. Long story. I'm currently owned by a diva dog corgi mix, the Daisy of my book review blog. through her I've become part of my neighborhood, enjoying the not always quiet walks in Alaska, and admitting that my life isn't my own. It's better, fuller, just as Maynard has learned.

I won't detail this story of finding one's life through a dog's unconditional love and zest for living. Dog owners, oh, who am I kidding, people owned by a dog (or any pet, for that matter) know what I mean. Maynard, like me, found many reasons to resist a dog. One of my roll my eyes as I chuckle moments was when she admits that even when finally giving in to her husband's desire for a rescue dog was to declare, basically, okay, but it can't get on the bed. Bet you know how that turned out. I've also got to admit, that I much appreciated her letting readers know the "dog doesn't die" in this book, something that tends to make me wary of any specific dog focused books. Thanks, Rona. Casey has taught you well. 

I was lucky enough to get both the audio and ebook to review. Read by Maynard, the audio book had me smiling from the beginning. While I flipped back and forth from audio to ebook, there is something about hearing a personal story of growth from that person. After thought, I decided that dog person that I am, I would have been just as sucked in by the written words as the audio had I only had it to go on, so I highly recommend both/either. 

Just as anyone who has ever walked a dog quickly learns that they won't be hurried to "do their business", the story pace is leisurely. Maynard spends some time revealing her pre-dog self, which was when I began to see much of myself in her, and then allows us to see how one not-so-well-behaved dog changed her for the better. 

Thank you #NetGalley and #ECWPressAudio -#ECWPress for introducing me to #RonaMaynard and her very good dog. My Daisy sends a slurpy kiss and gives this a four paws and a tail wag rating.

I Swear: Politics Is Messier Than My Minivan, by Katie Porter

 

Publication April 1, 2023

My first impression of Katie Porter was that she rather reminded me of a teacher. As it turns out, I wasn't wrong. She was a teacher/professor, one who seems to frequently use her position as a member of Congress to teach. I sorta liked her as I started the book but am now admitting that I'm a full-fledged Katie Porter fan. She comes across as a real person, frequently mentioning her worries as a parent, ie was she neglecting her own children in her quest to, so to speak, "save the world". She's smart, not easily intimidated, albeit frequently exhausted and frustrated. She was also smart/lucky enough to have worn sneakers on that infamous January 6th gathering, not to mention find a pair for AOC, too. BTW, they were never evacuated from her office, spending the day hiding out there as chaos reigned outside. 

 This is her story. Her story of her first foray into politics, one that seemed unlikely to be successful, through some of the Congressional moments anyone who was paying attention will remember. The evolution of her famous White Board is told as she delves into not just hearings on the likes of bank big-shots and Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg, but right into the lead-up and decisions to impeach a sitting president. It's told from her viewpoint, one highly colored by her own knowledge and experiences. I also had to chuckle when she revealed private memories, such as dealing with her children's awkward attempts to be helpful on campaigns. In other words, we get the real Katie Porter, both the Congressional and mother side of her. 

Bottom line, I started the book with mild curiosity. I finished admiring and liking Porter. She's someone I'd love to know, well, if she could ever find a spare moment when she isn't hurrying to another in an endless series of meetings or votes or dealing with the pile of laundry at home. Thank you #NetGalley and #CrownPublishing - #Crown for introducing me to an extraordinary woman.

The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times (AUDIO), by Michelle Obama, author and narrator

 

I'm delighted to make this my first review of 2023. I sat down with so many things I wanted to say but, as I thought about it, I opted to keep it simple. This one is a must for anyone who has ever wondered, "Am I good enough?" Or, those who have ever feel discouraged, despair, and questioned our own efforts to make the world a better place. 

I like Michelle Obama. Oh, I've always admired her. I read her first book, "Becoming", and felt like I was peeking into her life. This time, we're peering into her soul. It's no secret that she doesn't like the political life, but hearing her read her words of her turmoil knowing she had the last call on her husband's presidential run, plus the complex feelings she experienced becoming a frequent target, made me want to give her a hug. Then, reading of how covid impacted this very prominent family and her worries for not just family but the nation as the then president failed to address the pandemic, is a stark reminder that we really were, and still are, in this together. She's open, candid, and allows her vulnerability to show. Yes, I like this woman and want to give her a hug.

I won't detail the ideas she shares that helped her work through what she admits was at least a low level state of depression, but they all seem to come back to one thing: One step at a time. We can't save the world in one day, change things in one day, or change others' minds in one day, but we can take small, measured steps forward. As a former fan of crochet, I smiled when she talked about learning to knit and how it helped center her, remind her that small steps forward are progress. 

Oh, there's so much more, but I'd strongly suggest you read this one for yourself. As she notes, one person's solution or suggestions won't solve everyone's needs, but hopefully you'll find something here to smooth and soothe your road. Even better, get the audio version as I did.. You'll relate to her obvious vulnerability and fears as well as her steps forward, even when she was frightened.

Head on: A Memoir, by Larry Csonka

 

Publication Oct. 4, 2022

Much to my surprise, I discovered Hall of Fame football player Larry Csonka and I have a bit in common. We were both born in rural areas in Ohio but spent many of our working years in Florida. That's where I first encountered Csonka, well, virtually via my tv screen, during his Miami Dolphin glory days. We both also felt Alaska calling us, although his call seems to have come much earlier than mine via a 1955 copy of Field & Stream that showed an Alaskan grizzly decimating a camp in Alaska on the cover. Mine call came from Gary Paulsen's "Woodsong", so I guess you can say we were both drawn by the power of images. I now live in Alaska and Csonka  operates a hunting/fishing tour in Alaska part of the year. Heck, he even lives in my general area. Yep, Alaska's call is strong.

In any case, while I found his football memories intriguing, it was the Alaska connection that drew me to his story, I must admit. That said, I'll never watch a football game again where the tv cameras pan to show us an encounter along the sidelines and just assume it's all business. The players may be focused on a game but the coaches and players are human, as are the officials, and Csonka  shares some humorous encounters and happenings in the process of telling his story. The injury levels are chilling, too. It'll help if you're a football fan, of course, but there's enough non-football to hold the interest of those who prefer the human story, the background that brought Csonka to where he is today, such as his sister being attacked and stabbed. It's also amazing to see how naive he was, even as a professional football player, "back in the day". Can you imagine any football player today, for instance, not being aware of female impersonators and the wonders and football mad frenzy of New Orleans when hosting a Super Bowl? Names like Elvis, Burt Reynolds, Joe Namath and, whoa, even Donald Trump entered and left his world. It's to his credit, although he was certainly no saint, that Alaska seemed to have a stronger hold on him than all the glamour of celebrity.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. If you're a football fan, whether of the Dolphins or not, you'll find the recounting of games and players fascinating. If you simply like intriguing memoirs that show where someone famous came from, you'll find his memories of his early days and family influences of interest, not to mention the fact that, whoa, Larry Csonka was once bullied unmercifully. That farm boy has come a long way. He also survived a horrendous storm in a relatively small boat on the Bering Sea while filming his show "North to Alaska," a memory that gave me chills while sitting safely on my own couch.

Bottom line, this one is a winner. It may not compare to a Super Bowl trophy and ring, but Larry "Zonk" Csonka has a winner in "Head On." Thanks to #NetGalley and #BenBellaBooks - #MattHolt for giving me this peek into my fellow part-time Alaskan, Larry Czonka.