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Showing posts with label memoir. Show all posts
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Tuesday, February 10, 2026

North of Ordinary: How One Woman Left It All Behind for Wilderness and Wonder in Alaska's Frozen Frontier , by Susan Aikens


 Publication March 10, 2026

Although I've certainly heard of Life Below Zero and Susan Aikens, I sometimes think I must be one of the few Alaskans who has never watched even one episode of Life Below Zero. As a result, other than the well documented bear attacks, I knew very little more about her other than that she was living a rugged life. As such, I was instantly pulled in from the opening chapter. Aikens struggles began long before Life Below Zero. I'm not going to go into detail here because I don't want to dilute one word of this astonishing tale of struggling not just to survive against the odds but thrive and find her place in a sometimes inhospitable land. This is her story and although I lean toward thinking some sections were glossed over, it's an amazing one. 

Alaska itself, of course, plays a starring role. I could instantly identify with how small and alone she must have felt as a child left alone here. Even in the best of times I have frequently pondered how, while we all need to be reminded at times that we're not the center of the universe, that there is life within the emptiness and grandeur and, yes, frigid cold where she lives north of the Arctic Circle. I've been to Fairbanks, south of her turf, in the winter and learned what -40 degrees felt like.... it wasn't great but was also amazing to realize one could survive it .... but I was surrounded by people and had a cozy, well heated cabin to retreat to that I didn't even have to chop and gather wood for. And, of course, surviving the harsh cold is only a small part of the battle of life. Loneliness, the unexpected, (an Alaskan specialty), vast emptiness, injury and sickness, wildlife who were there first, and, well, so much more, all play into just the survival mode, never mind finding yourself while surviving. The resilience of the human spirit can break or be strong. In Aikens, it is strong.

Bottom line, I could rattle on here endlessly but will try to restrain myself to saying that if you enjoy stories of not just surviving the elements but your past, you will thoroughly enjoy this book. If you are interested in it simply for the Alaska setting, that's okay, too. Alaska is vast and you'll find something to love, not to mention gasp over in astonishment of all she can throw at you in one of the most challenging areas of Alaska. Aikens faced not just the challenge of life in remote Alaska but one of overcoming her own past and haunting memories of never being enough. And, and, and....okay, I could keep going but it's tough not to want to detail specifics and I want to leave the readers to meet Aikens' Alaska fresh. Thanks #Sourcebooks for allowing me this early peek at Aikens. I think I may have to finally dive into watching a few episodes of Life Below Zero, or at least wonder if she's watching the same Northern Lights aurora display I am next time Lady Aurora dances above me. 

Sunday, December 21, 2025

Once There Was a Town: The Memory Books of a Lost Jewish World, by Jane Ziegelman

 

Publication Jan. 20, 2026

Although I had heard of the Yizkor  books, I had no real knowledge of their history. As the author explains early on, it's long. Even the Biblical book of Lamentation, I believe credited to Jeremiah,  might be considered the first example of what might be called "Jewish disaster literature". It tells of the destruction of the Temple and an era of Jewish exile. To be simplistic, these books attempt to capture the history and times as well as the individual names of those caught up in disaster. They tend to run from 400-800 pages when complete and provide the link that connects past to present and, yes, future. The objective, as directed by scripture, is remembrance. While names of those killed or passed are certainly given, they also capture a snapshot of the life these people and/or village lived. 

Ironically, I started this book just before the Bondi Beach attack, so one has to imagine that event will eventually make its way into a vizkor book. The author's focus, however, is largely on the now long-gone town of Lubomi, Poland, where many of her ancestors came from. She knew little of that story growing up but not just Lubomi but many other villages disappeared during WWII. Totally. They are remembered, however, by the presence of Vizkor memories captured in writing. While the author detours away to other places at times, her focus remains on her family's past hometown. Besides names, it includes memories of personal life, one of my favorites being the time-consuming baking of a huge amount of bread. Their ordinary lives remind us not to forget. As you read, a community seemingly erased by history comes to life. The people are no long mere statistics but living, breathing people. People who were part of the author's family.

I'm not going to detail the stories, that would be unfair to not just the reader but the subjects, but it's very human and obviously heartfelt. While I did feel the pace slowed here and there, perhaps that was actually a good thing as it gave my mind time to process all I was reading. The author's occasional detours to other sites is also a reminder that Lubomi wasn't an isolated, one time instance. It is part of history and deserves to be remembered. Thanks #StMartin'sPress for this early look at such a meaningful book. 

Thursday, December 4, 2025

Winter: The Story of a Season, by Val McDermid

 

Publication Jan. 13, 2026

It must have been serendipity that the morning I planned to read this delightful winter story that I woke to not just falling temperatures but snowflakes lazily drifting down. I was immediately taken in by the cover as that blue tint mirrors the way the cold snowy days here in Alaska so often look to not just the eye but my camera. I started out diligently taking notes and jotting down phrases I particularly enjoyed. They were lovely but soon I just sat aside the pen and pad and read. I'm glad I did. Full of personal memories of winters, particularly in Scotland, it felt like I was simply sitting in my living room sharing winter stories with the author. As such, it could be said it's rather a rambling narrative, but that's part of the charm. 

You'll get stories about not only winter but how the writer's own thoughts and writing processes so often mirrored the seasons, imaging as she looks out her writing room window watching "gnarled and arthritic oak trees" and veering to stories of bridges, family history, birds, train travel, including into Russia, and even some well crafted writing tips. As an Alaskan, I particularly enjoyed the section on the puffins, and comfort foods. And, oh, yes, even a winter trip to New Orleans. Having been there at Marti Gras time when it was so cold the bridges froze and were so unsafe that they closed them down just behind us rang particularly true. It was her descriptive and often poetic sounding tales of winter that pulled it all together, even when we veer from childhood memories to near present day ones, that made it extra special. Toss in some delightfully simply illustrations that perfectly capture the soul of her words and this one was a winner. Thanks so much #GroveAtlantic for allowing me this early peek at this delightful book. I'm not sure I can hang onto that magical infatuation with all things winter through the long winter days of Alaska's winters but it opens my eyes to seeing the wonder rather than simply the inconvenience. Wintertime is truly a magical season and kudos to the author for sharing her thoughts and memories. Now, what did I do with my winter gloves?

Monday, November 3, 2025

100 Rules for Living to 100: An Optimist's Guide to a Happy Life (Audio), by Dick Van Dyke, narrated by Tom Bergeron, with intro by Dick Van Dyke

 

AUDIO, Narrated by Tom Bergeron with intro by Dick Van Dyke        7h 27m

I loved it. With an introduction from Van Dyke himself and Tom Bergeron, a favorite from his time on Dancing With The Stars, as narrator, it was a winner. He captured Dick Van Dyke well. So well, in fact, that it was easy to forget you weren't listening to Van Dyke himself. The pacing and generally upbeat lilt, for lack of a better word, to his voice added a great deal to the story. I'd actually read the print version (I'll paste that review at end) and enjoyed it, but in this case I'd say if you can only get one version, go with the audio. Sections that I had enjoyed but didn't particularly jump out at me in print had a new vibe, er, life in audio. Bergeron does an excellent job capturing voice changes when Van Dyke was writing as a character, such as the old man in Mary Poppins, too, a real plus. 

The pacing was upbeat, capturing the upbeat spirit hopefully conveyed, and it was easy to lose myself in the story as if I were sitting in an easy chair listening to Van Dyke/Bergeron talking to me like an ol' friend as we looked through old photos. That's basically what this book is, after all, a verbal photo of Van Dyke's life and memories, both good and bad. He doesn't shy away from the bad stuff, just puts it in its proper place, as a learning tool/memory, so to speak, that maybe doesn't define him but helped mold him. He says early on that his goal is to lift us up, to take care of us, so to speak, and one thing that I caught here that sorta passed me by in the print was his perceived role as protector to his little brother. So, that role is something ingrained in Van Dyke from an early age. 

On the technical side, while chapter numbers are narrated, the various "rules" are introduced via the title. They seemed to do an excellent job not only preparing you for what is to come but summarizing what you were about to hear, too. I found Bergeron a delight to listen to, which reminded me he got his start in radio, I believe, so he's perhaps naturally suited to this task. Bottom line, I thoroughly enjoyed this audio journey back through Dick Van Dyke's memories and wisdom sharing via Tom Bergeron's voice. Thanks. #HatchetteAudio - #GrandCentralPublishing for sharing this early listen with me. We could all use more positivity in this world and Van Dyke's book is a reminder that it's out there, even through the not so good times. Original review below. 

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Delightful. Just like Van Dyke. It felt pretty much like an ol' friend simply sitting in my living room sharing stories and memories. In other words, very readable and personal. I liked the fact that despite the title, he emphasizes early on that there are really no set rules. Instead, you'll get lots of  stories that seemed to encompass his entire life. And what a life it has been. I'm pretty sure my first intro to him was via the Dick Van Dyke Show but have followed his career off and on over the years. How cool was it to see his appearance in the recent, updated version of "Mary Poppins" with Lin-Manual Miranda essentially playing his past role as Bert. 

Dick Van Dyke's optimism and humor shine through. I've been lucky enough to have read a couple of his past books, including a biography where he divulged that despite the smile and humor we saw on screen, his life wasn't always clear sailing, so it was wonderful to see he's living his best life nowadays. True, as he notes, to use a phrase borrowed from elsewhere, old age isn't for sissies. He admits to the aches and pains and associated with aging, his challenges of the past, his losses, and to the loneliness as old friends leave us, not to mention his cheerful admission of forgetting the lyrics to songs at times. Given that here he is, nearly 100, singing with an a capella group called the Vantasix, it made me grin to imagine him losing the melody but finding it eventually without shame. Almost sounds like it could be a television show, huh? You rock, Dick. 

I won't detail the "rules for living" he shares, more like things "I've learned in nearly 100 years that may or may not apply to you but may amuse you", so you can discover them for the first time personally. His love of family, especially his praise for the role wife Arlene has played in his life, is touching, as are memories of his family and former friends and co-stars. I opted to just read and enjoy, to be honest, so don't have many notes to share. For me, and I think for others, Dick Van Dyke has accomplished his main goal, to lift us up by sharing a piece of himself. And, oh, I just grinned. Sat down to type and realized I've been running around barefooted, which he'd obviously approve. It's called earthing, he notes, and he highly recommends it. So glad I've been following this bit of advice much of my life. Thanks #GrandCentralPublishing for giving me an early peek at this absolutely delightful tale. Dick Van Dyke continues to inspire and lift us all up. 

 

Thursday, October 30, 2025

Life as a Dog: One dog, two lives and adventures that live forever, by L.A. Davenport

 

Publication Nov. 13, 2025

Dog people, you need this book. 

I absolutely loved this. It spoke to me as a human owned by a dog in so many ways. Seriously, I could easily see myself in many of the situations and circumstances described, from walking the dog to talking to it, to all the highs and lows that come with being owned by a pet. While the author's setting is far more urban than my town in Alaska, the people and dogs are the same. I felt the author's panic when he talks about a dog coming at them on a walk clearly meaning harm because, well, been there, done that. Hope to never do it again. And, and, and....so many moments, both wondrous and difficult. 

Time permitting, I'll perhaps add a few more specifics later but for now, well, my own four legged friend is demanding my attention. Seriously, if she could figure out the logistics, I'm pretty sure Daisy would have long since buried this laptop. Bottom line, loved it and highly recommend it to not just dog owners but those who've been loved by any animal. So much of the behavior and the moments in this book could easily be converted to just about any animal. My sincere thanks to #P-WavePress and #NetGalley for making this charming book available to me early. Virtual treats for all those pets out there! 

I could go on endlessly but will simply say this is an easy read, rather like sitting in the living room with our dogs sprawled across our laps soaking up the scratches and attention. You know, kinda like friends talking. 

Friday, October 24, 2025

100 Rules for Living to 100: An Optimist's Guide to a Happy Life, by Dick Van Dyke


Publication Nov. 18, 2025

Delightful. Just like Van Dyke. It felt pretty much like an ol' friend simply sitting in my living room sharing stories and memories. In other words, very readable and personal. I liked the fact that despite the title, he emphasizes early on that there are really no set rules. Instead, you'll get lots of  stories that seemed to encompass his entire life. And what a life it has been. I'm pretty sure my first intro to him was via the Dick Van Dyke Show but have followed his career off and on over the years. How cool was it to see his appearance in the recent, updated version of "Mary Poppins" with Lin-Manual Miranda essentially playing his past role as Bert. 

Dick Van Dyke's optimism and humor shine through. I've been lucky enough to have read a couple of his past books, including a biography where he divulged that despite the smile and humor we saw on screen, his life wasn't always clear sailing, so it was wonderful to see he's living his best life nowadays. True, as he notes, to use a phrase borrowed from elsewhere, old age isn't for sissies. He admits to the aches and pains and associated with aging, his challenges of the past, his losses, and to the loneliness as old friends leave us, not to mention his cheerful admission of forgetting the lyrics to songs at times. Given that here he is, nearly 100, singing with an a capella group called the Vantasix, it made me grin to imagine him losing the melody but finding it eventually without shame. Almost sounds like it could be a television show, huh? You rock, Dick. 

I won't detail the "rules for living" he shares, more like things "I've learned in nearly 100 years that may or may not apply to you but may amuse you", so you can discover them for the first time personally. His love of family, especially his praise for the role wife Arlene has played in his life, is touching, as are memories of his family and former friends and co-stars. I opted to just read and enjoy, to be honest, so don't have many notes to share. For me, and I think for others, Dick Van Dyke has accomplished his main goal, to lift us up by sharing a piece of himself. And, oh, I just grinned. Sat down to type and realized I've been running around barefooted, which he'd obviously approve. It's called earthing, he notes, and he highly recommends it. So glad I've been following this bit of advice much of my life. Thanks #GrandCentralPublishing for giving me an early peek at this absolutely delightful tale. Dick Van Dyke continues to inspire and lift us all up. 

Tuesday, July 29, 2025

For the Love of Dog: How Dogs Think and the Unbreakable Bond That Connects Us, by Maggie Marton


 Publication Sept. 16, 2025

We really don't deserve dogs.  

The title of the final chapter pretty much sums it up, "Dogs Are Love: Plain and Simple". It's a heartfelt, lovely tribute to our furry friends. Be prepared, however, for both laughter and tears. Every dog in our lives teaches us something and, sadly, that includes about loss.

The focus of the book, however, is what the author learned about herself and, in a sense, human nature in general from her own experience. It details her learning curve with Emmett, with his separation anxiety, Lucas, who was basically afraid of everything, and Scooter, later renamed Cooper, who made the author and her husband failed fosters despite his housebreaking challenges. Trust me, they have a lot of company in that category of people who volunteered to care for a dog until a suitable home is found only to fall in love with the dog and adopt it themselves. Each dog, while ultimately loving, had their own personalities and quirks and it was a at times to work through their issues with them. Kudos for the author for persisting. She learned something about dogs from each encounter, not to mention herself and others. There is quite a bit of easy to digest research and science shared but it was the personal experience and growth of the author that kept me reading.

Although I took pages of notes as I read, I'm opting to simply say that this is a book all dog lovers should read. Trust me, reading this with my own now senior dog at my feet, this wasn't an easy read at times but it was a thoughtful, loving one. The pain of loss is well worth the joy of knowing and sharing their life, however brief in comparison to our own. Dogs live in the moment and don't overthink, they simply live. There's something to be said for that. 

Bottom line, well worth the time it'll take to read. It's actually an easy read but I tended to spread out my sessions with it to both savor the content and think, really think, about what my own dog means to me. Thanks to #PostHillPress for making this early copy available to me. It wasn't always a "fun" read but it was a great read with my own furry friend curled up somewhere beside me. I'm going to check out a few of the references given at the back, too, I think, as time permits. 



Monday, April 7, 2025

This Dog Will Change Your Life, by Elias Weiss Friedman

 

Publication June 3, 2025

The perfect book to read with your own furry friend curled up against your side.

To be honest, I finished this book quickly but kept finding reasons not to review it in order to be able to hang onto it a bit longer, so to speak. Yes, I enjoyed it thoroughly. And, yes, much of it was read with my own rescue, Daisy, curled up next to me or  snoozing on my feet, one of her favorite spots. I think it's to make sure I don't go anywhere without here. The author, who I'm almost embarrassed to admit that while I've heard of him, I'd never checked out his Dogist site, would probably know. It was great fun to sort of travel along with him as he talks about his childhood dogs through the creation of his Dogist site. 

His love of dogs shines through even when he shares a few not-so-fun experiences as he learned the best way to approach and handle his mostly random encounters with dogs and their humans. I found his thoughts on not staring into a strange to you dog's eyes interesting, for instance. His thoughts on puppy mills and rescue are equally thoughtful and shows his disciplined approach to learning more about all aspects of the dog world. 

I won't detail the text as those familiar with his photography  are probably more familiar with him than I was when I started this book. To be honest, I think I was expecting a sweet book of dog photos, some of which are included. After all, that is how I became aware of him, but was impressed by his depth and ability to share this thoughts in a conversational manner that made this an easy, enjoyable read. Instinctively, I think most dog fans know how dogs touch our lives but it's nice to see it laid out in print and I found myself taking extensive notes. Heck, even designer dogs, if that's the right turn, are discussed, as is the toll on those who rescue. My Daisy is a rescue, so I have the utmost respect for them, that's for sure. I even learned about a distant cousin, so to speak, of the corgi, the Lancaster Heeler, so there's much to learn here, too. Bottom line, if you love dogs, you will love this book. My sincere thanks to #RandomHousePublishingHouse for giving me this early peek at this book. Dogs do change us for the better, that's for sure.

Sunday, March 2, 2025

You Can Never Die: A Graphic Memoir, by Harry Bliss

 

Publication April 29, 2025

Sitting here with my own senior dog pressed against my side, this was a book I went into with both anticipation and trepidation.  I first encountered Bliss, I'm sure, via his cartoons for The New Yorker magazine and though I enjoyed his artwork, never really paid much attention. That changed when I discovered he'd illustrated books for writer/comedian/actor Steve Martin. I recall then being taken by appearances of a dog called Penny but was never sure if Penny was real and, if so, who she belonged to.

Penny was Bliss' much adored dog. While this book would seem on the surface a memorial to her, I mean, that's her sweet face on the cover, it's really as much about Harry Bliss and his life and the people in it as his dog. Penny gets star billing, of course, which is only right. Originally more his then girlfriend, now wife's dog, we learn how she ultimately wiggled her way into his heart, but we also get to know the human side of Bliss, his career path, and those who've mattered to him, family, friends, and, yes, pets. So, it's really his memoir, the path made clearer by Penny's presence. Nor is it the tear jerker the title may suggest although, be prepared, Bliss shares his emotional goodbyes to not just Penny but his own family. In the process, therefore, we learn about the human behind the frequently humorous artwork, as well as the role one dog played in his life. And, yes, Steve Martin does make a couple appearances including mentions of his own bond with his dog Roger. Martin, who's rarely serious in public statements, turns thoughtful. In the process of reading, we get to enjoy countless drawings, many of Penny, as well as photos of family and friends throughout Bliss' life.

Bottom line, while focused on loss, the book is really about bonds we share as we live, yes, live. It's about life. His grief had me reaching out without really realizing it at moments for my own furry girl, but then he'd backtrack and share a real, usually humorous moment and I'd smile as I realized what I'd done. Don't let anyone tell you cartoonists can't write, in other words. I thought of a line I've heard used at frequent memorial services. To paraphrase, as painful as our loss in now, would you trade it for never having the chance to know them? Of course not. Bliss gets this and although his anguish over losing a beloved furry family member of some 15 years resonates loudly, so to does the theme of life goes on. He even introduces us to his new dog, Junior, still seemingly in puppy mode as the book was written. Somehow, I think Penny would approve. My sincere thanks to #CeladonBooks and author #HarryBliss for gifting me this meaning introduction to all things Penny and life. As long as we have our memories, "You Can Never Die".

Monday, August 19, 2024

Low-Hanging Fruit: Sparkling Whines, Champagne Problems, and Pressing Issues from My Gay Agenda, by Randy Rainbow


 Publication October 8,2024

How this man manages to travel and tour is beyond me. Not only is he introverted, he suffers from anxiety and what many of us would call "being too nice". People may walk all over him or annoy him to death, often just by trying too hard, but he still feels compelled to, as my grandmother would say, "play nice". I cracked up at his effort to right a perceived slight to an airport greeter and guide. Being famous or, as he notes sorta famous, has its perks but also annoyances, too.  That's actually good in this case as it gave him lots of things to whine and be aggravated about, his words not mine. I mean, re-read the title. That says it all. Randy Rainbow, far from living the worry/stress-free live of a star, seems to be in a constant state of anxiety. Even worse, despite the rider in his contract, unlike those of mega-stars, his simple requests are rarely fulfilled. I somehow doubt Taylor Swift would be shorted a humidifier in her hotel room if she requested one but, well, you'll see just how far being famous but not on the A-List gets you.

While I'm not sure I enjoyed this one as much as the first book, if you read closely you'll pick up more about what the real Randy Rainbow is really like. He's insecure, a dreamer, fretful, introverted, anxious when he has to travel, wants to please, and, well, the list goes on. The running theme of this book is, of course, of him complaining, so I'm happy to say he does in his usual funny way. Is it possible to be both light-hearted and serious? Somehow he manages. I've read countless books by comedians and they often appear to be some of the saddest people around, so a hint of melancholy isn't a surprise. He's still looking for the one true love but does adore his cat, Tippi, who gets a chapter to sound off about life with Randy, and obviously adores his mother, Gwen. She has a chapter, too, though she denies losing him as a child at a mega entertainment complex (hint, Randy lived in FL prior to moving to NYC). There are even a couple chapters in verse. Nope, not telling. You're just going to have to read the book.

Bottom line, I thoroughly enjoyed spending more time with Randy Rainbow. While I wouldn't want to live his life (although I'd have a constant supply of chocolate on my contract rider), it's a fascinating one to visit. I do feel compelled to offer a trigger warning to those offended by sexual talk, although he handles his less than stellar romantic episodes in a light, breezy way. I actually found myself laughing along with him, even when he delved into his bodily worries. Hey, admit it. We all wish we could be more perfect. Thanks #StMartin'sPress for allowing me to share an early peek at the current status of Randy Rainbow. I know he's on tour as I type, so hope the hotels remember that humidifier and his water.

Friday, August 2, 2024

A Creek, a Hill, and a Forty: The early years of Alaska's Matanuska Colony, seen through a colonist's letters home, by Ray Bonnell


Publication August 15, 

I live in the area. As both a resident and former history major/teacher/buff, I thoroughly enjoyed this look at life back in the "good ol' days". 

Of courses, as the book tells us, those "good ol' days" weren't always so good. I've read many books on the creation of the Matanuska Colony but this one, based on the letters home from colonist Margaret Miller, provides the personal touch many others don't offer. That she was quite detailed and wrote well is another plus. Nor does she shy away from the more difficult, even controversial topics involved, ranging from the difficulties faced initially.... they lived in tents until homes were built and life was difficult… as well as the various organizational issues and, sigh, political issues that increasingly became a part of her family's life.  It's actually rather fascinating.

Yet, I found that it was the more mundane, personal touches that hit home the most. People they'd formed friendships with giving up and leaving. Lack of not just jobs, but even those available were usually some distance away, plus limited educational opportunities for their children. The fact that winning a single milk cow in a drawing might be the difference between success and, well, going hungry. In other words, peeks into the real lives of these pioneers. I did laugh at how little has changed in politics, too, as I read the section of the "Ice Worms" vs the producers, ie the colonists. The tales of vehicles having to be replaced due to the rough, early roads. And we complain about pot holes? Somehow I believe they'd marvel at even the most primitive road today that runs through the area. And, oh, the complaints of dogs running loose throughout the community. Hmm, where have I heard this lately? In other words, a personal look at life in the not-so-long-ago "good ol' days".

Bottom line, while this obviously won't be as personal for many readers, if you're a history buff or just curious about what life in Alaska was once like, you'll enjoy this well-written, nicely presented story. The author also includes list of the original colonists and the state they originated from, as well as a lengthy list of sources used. Something tells me I may be driving over toward Palmer in the near future to check out some of what I'll call "that was then, this is now" comparisons to the old b/w photos generously used throughout the book.

Sunday, July 21, 2024

Like Mother, Like Son: From the Deepest Despair of Mental Illness to the Grittiest End-Of-Life Battle with Metabolic Syndrome, by Stephen Bryant Biles , Daniel Fredman M.D. (foreword)

 

Since I read this one in spurts, between other books I've committed to review, and dealing with the real world, my apologies if this doesn't quite flow. It's an intense read but one that anyone who has ever dealt with mental illness in the family can relate to. Needless to say, I flashed back to my own experiences dealing with dementia in the family, so it hit close to home at times. 

It begins with the recounting of the author's mother, Shirley Ellen Biles, being taken away in a straight jacket.  The author is about 8-9 at the time and has grown up dealing with his mother's breakdowns much of his life. I'm honestly impressed that the author can recount this story so well given all the emotions that had to be riling within him. He mentions his mother turning on his father violently, striking out and shrieking at him, something I experienced first-hand, so I could definitely relate to the emotions and I was an adult at the time. Paranoid schitzophrenia and the dementia that I experienced aren't the same but seem to have shared many of the most visible characteristics. Treatments were primitive by today's standards but doctors did seem to work out a medical treatment that allowed Shirley to maintain her core self for longer and longer periods. I won't detail them as, quite frankly, the meds used were unfamiliar with me and I don't want to misspeak. 

The book is basically broken down into three parts, perseverance, phoenix, and post struggles. We're given an intimate look at the patient's prior life, including her childhood and marriage. To complicate matters, Stephen's father was an alcoholic, dealing with his own demons, hardly preparing him to cope with his wife's mental illness. His presence, however, somewhat shielded Stephen until 1981, when his father passed away. I won't detail the journey as not only does the blurb do an good job of covering the basics but there are already some excellent, detailed reviews out there, but Stephen's life changed forever. Manic depression and periods of paranoia and hyper-energy from his mother followed, and that's just the tip of the iceberg facing the Biles family. Stephen's unwavering devotion to his mother never failed, however, even when forced to leave one profession and begin another that, initially, was anything but a success. That would change but that is where dogs began to play a major role in the journey. But, first, a few more details....

One aspect of this journey to save his mother from the depths of despair that I'd highlight is his willingness to work closely with the medical professionals involved in Shirley's treatment. As noted, her illness, even today, isn't a simple one to treat. Medicines and treatments had to be fine-tuned and adapted as Shirley's situation changed. Dr. Fredman, who wrote the foreward, was one of the doctors involved early on, btw. Note, it's predicted one in four Americans will experience some form of mental health issue in their lifetime, so this is a story that could apply to any of us. It's a story that will both warm and hurt your heart but you'll admire the love and trust that existed between mother and son throughout. It isn't always an easy story to read, either, so keen those tissues handy. Shirley's intense drive to get better and Stephen's willingness to sacrifice to meet their mutual goals are inspiring, however. I should note the basic goals, too: consistant, meaningful exercise, maintaining social contact, and being able to feel independent, ie like she was having a say in her own life and treatment, were at the top of the list. Through it all, Stephen faced the task of keeping not only her motivated but, of course, himself. I didn't note the exact words but at one point he says he was both her drill sergeant and couch as well as her lifeline and inspiration. 

As for the dogs, they do play a role in the story. When forces to leave his job behind, Stephen found himself "going to the dogs", cliche that it is. The family had always had dogs and he ultimately decided to try to make a go of it starting a doggie day care. Dogs had always been a huge part of the family's life and it seemed a natural. But, it wasn't easy. You'll meet many of the dogs that passed through their lives, all leaving a mark. Initially forced to take any and all jobs caring for the dogs, even if it involved driving distances in the middle of the night, Stephen had a secret weapon. His mother. Shirley, who customers seem to have come to think of as part of their canine's family, too, played a huge role, often helping care for the more difficult dogs. Do be forewarned, since this story covers more than two decades, it is inevitable that some of these dogs will pass during the story so, as noted early, keep those tissues close although, quite frankly, I found these dog stories and roles more inspiring than saddening. 

Bottom line, this is a story that as difficult as some sections were to read, deserves to be read. While sadly, even after beating back her mental issues, Shirley was than faces with medical issues that are also shared, it's an inspiring story. Anyone who has ever felt despair while dealing with the illness or caring for those it has impacted, will know both that they aren't alone and that as hopeless as things may seem at times, there is hope. I don't feel like this quick overview has done justice to the book but hope many will give it a read. You'll come away wanting to hug your loved ones closer and, yes, that includes your furry family friends.



Monday, July 1, 2024

Musings of a Horse Farm Corgi, by Leslie McDonald

 

I stumbled across this one nearly a year ago while searching "corgi" on Amazon and couldn't resist that cute corgi face on the cover. My Daisy isn't a fluffy but has cute in spades, so was curious to see how this little one fared on a horse farm. I'm not sure if Daisy's ever seen a horse or not, but she has seen moose, bigger and potentially far more dangerous than a horse, and remains convinced she can take care of them. Uh, right, Daisy.

In any case, this is a cute, fun story told from the perspective of Beamer, the puppy star of the book. He gets his name due to his sunny, get it, sun beam, attitude. The author did a great job capturing the inherent corgi attitude and takes us from the puppy's birth to its time on the horse farm. Knowing how Daisy's mind always seems to be working, it was fun to see Beamer's thoughts as he tries to figure out and then manipulate first his new humans, two laid back labs, and, oh, my an electric barrier fence. He lost that round. He even makes friends of sorts with a special horse and frets when it gets colic. Don't worry, the horse was okay. You'll see him work his wiles on everyone from the riding students to the other canines and eventually emerge as "Corgi in Charge". Like all corgis, he's a charmer. There are b/w photos throughout to take you through his adventures. One thing I learned was that fluffy corgis aren't in demand no matter how cute they are, at least if the potential owner wants to show or breed. I've always found them adorable but given that Daisy is simply a corgi mix and I had no intentions of adding another puppy to the world, I'd never delved that deeply into such breed standards. 

Bottom line, a fun read that will give wannabe corgi owners some insight into how the corgi mind seems to work. Kudos to the author for capturing Beamer's thoughts so well. This was published in 2012, so should be an easy find on Amazon for those like me that navigate to all things corgi. The best part was, of course, reading it with my Daisy curled up next to me.

Saturday, March 2, 2024

My Mama, Cass: A Memoir, by Owen Elliot-Kugell

 


 Publication May 7, 2023

Having recently read "All the Leaves Are Brown", by Scott G. Shea, which goes into great detail about the rise and fall of the Mamas and Papas, I hesitated to read this one, I must admit. I mean, how much more could it possible tell me? Oh, I'm so glad I didn't heed my hesitation..

Whereas Shea's book focuses on the dynamics and lives of all the group members, the focus here is on not just Cass Elliott but how her life and death impacted her daughter, Owen, who was only seven when Cass died. Much to her credit, Owen, who never even knew who her biological father was until a decade plus past Cass's death, neither ignores nor elevates the '60s lifestyle her mother lead. She draws on friends and family members to flesh out the woman she was only beginning to know before Cass died in London during a solo tour. You'll recognize many of those names, I'm sure. There are some very personal memories, too, such as acknowledging that she still has the ABC blanket with animals on it that was one of her last physical connections to her mother or remembering how the jangle of the bracelets Cass wore reminded her of wind chimes. In other words, this is a book written from love.

I won't detail Cass's life other than say she learned early to hide her hurt with humor, something that allowed her to carry on despite cruel jokes at the expense of her weight. Owen does clarify that the rumor of what caused her mother's death, that dang sandwich, were false. Raised by her aunt and grandmother, Owen's life wasn't an easy one. Nothing like one my think life of a superstar's child might be. The book doesn't point fingers, nothing salacious about anyone, but doesn't hide the fact that Owen had to have therapy as a child and struggled in school. She did seem to inherit her mother's creativity and love of music, however, and even came close to being a part of.....nope, not telling. You'll recognize the group name, however. 

Owen never hesitates to reveal her feelings of vulnerability, whether as a struggling youth or trying to connect with her biological father. I came away from the book admiring her greatly. She's taken an unflinching look but endearing look at her mother, writing with love, and has a smooth, easy writing style. If you have any interest in the 1960's lifestyle/music scene, you will thoroughly enjoy this book. So many what ifs, too, from "What if Cass had lived?" to "What if Owen had grown up not only with her mother's love but surrounded by the music scene?" or even "What if she'd known her father as a child?" In other words, this book makes you think while sharing a very personal story. Thanks #NetGalley and #HatchetteBooks for allowing me to read it early. I've always marveled at that remarkable voice of Cass Elliott, so I thoroughly enjoyed this far more-personal-than-most peek into her life and am delighted to see her daughter's voice emerge as a writer.

Sunday, January 7, 2024

Daisy approves this book

Caught this cute pose with Daisy and an old book I just picked up to read. 2012 publication date. Haven't done more than flip through to glance at a few pix....I've got another book I want to finish before I let myself get detoured.... but looks like it'll be a fun read.

Monday, January 1, 2024

Four Thousand Paws: Caring for the Dogs of the Iditarod: A Veterinarian's Story , by Lee Morgan

 

Publication Feb. 27, 2024

I should tell you up front that I came to this book with far more info than the average reader. True, it's pretty obvious I came for the dogs but I not only live in Alaska, but about two miles from Iditarod Headquarters. Not only that, I've attended several Iditarod races and have even ridden the runners of a sled. As Morgan reveals in the book, it's a rush. Needless to say, I was psyched to get this book to review. It definitely brings the dogs and race to life. Kudos, Lee Morgan.

For those unfamiliar with the race, it officially covers 1,049 miles through some of the most isolated, challenging terrain and weather one can imagine. Temps in the negative fifties aren't uncommon, not are encounters with moose. Let's just say, if a moose takes a notion to take offense at your team and charges at them, it's like being hit from the side by a good-sized pickup truck. There are other predators, of course, which is why most mushers carry a weapon in their sled. All this while covering a trail that may be marginal, not to mention with dangerous drifting snow, frozen streams or overflow, brutal stumps and snags, deep ruts from teams that have gone before you or maybe worse, no sign of the trail at all. You will cross the frozen Bering Sea as the race nears the end, too. The musher has to depend on their dogs to find that trail since, at times, in a blizzard or episode of gale force winds, the musher may be virtually running blind. Needless to say, each checkpoint, there are usually 26, is a welcome site. 

And that where Morgan and the team of vets that are out in conditions not much better than those that face the mushers come in. This is both his story and counter against those who claim the dogs are mistreated. Quite frankly, even with my relatively strong background in all things Iditarod, I found his story both informative and fascinating. It's a fun read, almost like you're sitting by a campfire listening to him share his experiences (and misadventures). His sense of humor shines through, too, adding to the enjoyment. 

This is where I'm duct taping my fingers to keep from going on endlessly about the contents because, well, you need to read this book and enjoy it in its entirety. You'll learn a great deal about not only the race itself but the standards the vets and mushers are held to. They're not working out of a climate controlled office, I should note. I've been to checkpoints and found myself nodding as I read about, say, the tent at Finger Lake Checkpoint. Yep, spot on, Lee Morgan. Getting to Nome is a definitely a challenge and, as Morgan notes, while the teams may move along, the planes moving the various teams of vets don't fly when the weather isn't safe, either, so you can be in some places awhile. But, what a rush. And, oh, the dogs. Their sheer joy and the love they share. You'll smile as you read about his vet check experiences, both before the race and along the trail as he meets some of the most remarkable canine characters ever. 

My thanks to trail vet #LeeMorgan, #WWNorton&Company - #Liveright for allowing me this sneak peek behind the scenes. Even this Alaskan once immersed in all things Iditarod learned something new and came away with a smile.


Thursday, December 7, 2023

The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore, by Stan Zimmerman

 

Publication Feb. 13, 2024

This book made me grin, laugh, and occasionally roll my eyes. It also made me cry. Like Kahlil Gibran in his "The Prophet" (can you tell what I've been rereading in spare moments), Zimmerman sings the praises of his mother and her role in his life throughout the book. She'd supported his dreams and helped him become his best self. Then she got dementia. Like Zimmerman, I, too, dealt with losing my mother to this awful disease that takes their presence from you while the body still remains. He describes it as watching the light dim in her eyes. That struck a bell, as did his admission that he felt both sadness and relief at her passing. She was no longer lost in the darkness of forgotten memories but he admits his best, most important role in life had been being a "son" and he was devastated. I needed a tissue. 

As for the rest of the book, it was a delight to read about his youthful passion for not just acting but writing plays that he put on in his basement. I flashed back to Randy Rainbow's book where he talked about basically getting his start in his own bedroom, doing it all, and grinned. I hope the two of them have met. Zimmerman was talented enough to be invited to a prestigious summer theater program before he'd even reached the required age but ultimately found him way primarily as a writer. 

While it was interesting to hear about his experiences as a quite young, gay man writing for The Golden Girls series, it was equally interesting to be given a, so to speak, behind the scenes look at how much goes into not just the creation of such series but the difficulty of getting even the best ideas on the air or stage. And, yes, tons of names are dropped that you'll recognize, from the cast of Golden Girls through his experiences in theater. Unlike many writers, I'll note he largely worked with a collaboration for most of his career, Jim Berg. Together, they are credited with some of the more memorable scenes on film, including the infamous lesbian kiss on the Roseanne Barr show. The behind the scenes look at that show alone is fascinating. 

Through it all, Zimmerman's almost conversational, often self-deprecating wit and words flow. It's an easy read and you're almost sure to encounter personalities you'll recognize. Zimmerman would have won me over with his love and respect for his mother and her role in his life, not to mention his acknowledgement of the role so many women had played, I'd like to think he's someone I'd have found intriguing even without that aspect. I mean, the man even danced behind Rudolph Nureyev in the glorious days of his youth. Andy Warhol even found him worthy of taking photos of at a party. Of course, he didn't recognize Warhol and told him to stop. 

Fortunately, he kept a journal most of his life, so such experiences are bolstered in the telling by his thoughts from the moment. Careful, wannabe show/play writers may even pick up a few hints as they read. Bottom line, a great, fun read. Thanks #NetGalley and #IndigoRiverPublishing for inviting me to meet Stan Zimmerman. I thoroughly enjoyed meeting him and vicariously living through a few of his experiences and my heart definitely goes out to him for his mother. Made me want to hug him and tell him "Everything will be okay".



Wednesday, October 4, 2023

Being Henry: The Fonz . . . and Beyond, written by and narrated by Henry Winkler

 

Audio Book   12h    Narrated by the author, Henry Winkler

Available October 31, 2023

Terrific read/listen. Actually, I highly recommend the audio book because his warmth, charm, and honesty shine forth so strongly from it. His honesty is the thing that struck me immediately. Although I was more of a Richie fan in the Happy Days era, it's easy to assume "tough guy" Fonzi, Henry's character, had it all together and was leading a charmed life. Far from it. That in itself should tell you what an excellent actor he is (Yale trained) as his life had been anything but easy. His struggles with dyslexia are largely known nowadays, including through his own co-authored series of books featuring Hank Zipper, but the emotional toil of his parents' attitude toward him left deep scars. He not only couldn't read but felt like an imposter in the Fonzi role albeit he appreciates what it did for him in the grand scheme of things.

Besides his honesty, he puts himself fully into the narration. You feel exactly the emotion he is channeling at that moment, good, bad, or indifferent. I loved his stories of some early celebrity encounters, including with Paul McCartney (complete with Paul’s very British accent) and Robin Williams. He is quick to laugh at himself, too, noting his awkwardness with the ladies and inability to be quiet when being quiet would have been his wisest move. His optimism shines through, however. I listened to much of this while driving, hence no notes, but one of the things he said that stuck with me was that you don't know what you can do until you try it. 

Rather than allow his childhood to make him bitter, he vowed to be a better father to his own (then future) children. He never felt seen by his own father and he didn't want that to be the case with his own children. Since his wife of now forty-something years, who injects her vantage point thoughts occasionally, had a child when they met, he was certainly put to the test early on and to all reports excelled at bonding with his son-to-be. To-date, he has six grandchildren, too, I believe it said, and makes himself available to them. 

Bottom line, Winkler bares his soul in this memoir and his honestly might change a few minds as to how easy and wonderful it is to be a "star". I like that he name-drops the countless friends and entertainment figures who have figured in his career in credit of their help and support. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I'm sure I knew he was pivotal in developing and producing Macgyver but simply hadn't kept up with his other roles aside from his books and award-winning role as Barry, so I learned quite a bit from this memoir.  

That he treasures his continued close friendship with Ron Howard is impressive, especially given the tension that could have existed between the two when Henry's role in "Happy Days" was given more air time than that of Howard's role, which was originally the starring role. That speaks highly for both men and after reading, well, listening to this book, I wish Henry Winkler were my friend. Thanks #NetGalley and #MacmillanAudio for this intimate introduction to Henry Winkler the man, not the character we see on television. I liked him.

Thursday, September 21, 2023

The Wonderful World of James Herriot: A Charming Collection of Classic Stories, by James Herriot, Rosie Page

 

Publication October 24, 2023

It all started with a dog....

Full review tomorrow. Dealing with a sore wrist right now that needs to rest but will say that this was a joy to read. Whether you're a long-time fan or new to James Herriot, you'll find something to love in here. Back tomorrow....promise....with details.


Tuesday, June 13, 2023

Floor Sample, by Julia Cameron

 

Publication August 8, 2023

Absolutely fascinating, well written, and disturbing. I can't say I enjoyed reading this but I kept coming back. I couldn't stay away. I wanted to see what she did next. There were a lot of nexts, too, as she seemed to flit from place to place, person to person, and genre to genre...mastering most of the last. As for the rest, uh, not so much.

I won't detail Cameron's life here as it's not only well-documented but others will have surely done so. Cameron, now well into her 70s, wrote this book when she was 57. She had a childhood full of horses, books, and freedom, but often dominated by "God says..." guilt and guilt trips. She lived close to the edge and, sadly, went over the edge. It's those times that make this a disturbing read as you're taken inside her drugged out or sedated by alcohol mind. In a sense, she was held hostage by not just her mind but her talent, which she has used in various venues, ranging from books like this to movies and theater. Recalling the scene where she details running out of the house in a panic naked, with an aide having to chase her down and cover her with a sheet, will horrify and astonish readers, who'll immediately feel either sympathy or horror. Honestly, Maybe both. 

Yes, reading this left me exhausted and disturbed. I found myself breaking down my reading stints into smaller segments, some at obvious breaks, others because, quite frankly, what I was reading left me so unsettled. Yet, she was painting a vivid picture of her life, which included not just growing up in the free spirited hippy age but name-drops famous names who dropped in and out of her life in a fascinating way. Some, like the father of her daughter, former husband Martin Scorsese, who was making Taxi Driver when they married, left, but many mentors and even former addicts were devoted to helping her defeat her demons. She drew people to her, yes, but she also drove them away.

Bottom line, as noted, not an easy read but one well worth making...even if you have to divide reading sessions up. As a former horse crazy girl, now dog person, I had to admire her devotion to her beloved animals. Even when her demons forced her to move and more again and again, her animals were always a priority. That tells me lots about her inner core, her true being. The Julia Cameron that I (and so many others) thought we knew and admired from her The Right to Write, is in there amidst all the chaos. It took nerve to write this book, which I admire. I'm not sure I could be so open and brave. Thank you #NetGalley and #StMartin'sPress - #StMartin'sEssentials for allowing me this look into the real Julia Cameron. It's definitely a book that will stay with me for a long time.

Murder Stage Left (A Lady Eleanor Swift Mystery, #26), by Verity Bright

  Publication Aug. 26, 2026 England, 1926. This is another one of my favorite series. You know, one of those that as a reviewer I request wi...