Publication August 11, 1016
We've all had bad days. Even very bad days. But, have you ever had a smad day? That is one of those days when not only does the world seem against you but you're mad at, well, just about everyone and everything. You're also usually absolutely convinced that nothing, absolutely nothing can change your mind set. This book is a lovely reminder that even on our worst days there are good things. While that maybe won't change your opinion of the day being a very bad day, it's a reminder that if you just take the time to look and listen, you'll discover that even on your worst days there are good things to enjoy, too.
Her mother's gentle guidance and admission that she, too, has bad days, are sweet and recognize the need to embrace her child's feelings without telling her simply to get over it was the perfect touch. The realization that everyone, even adults, can have bad days is something that, in the long run, will provide support and strength to the girl as she matures. I definitely liked that her mother didn't simply take her by the hand and start dragging her around, pointing to good things, too. That recognizes that no two people, even if related, react the same to everything. The good things don't have to be amazing. Simple joys, like a butterfly or puppy, even a beautiful, clear blue sky above you, count. I just glanced out my own window and realized I was smiling as I watched a neighbor heading out to feed her sweet chickens that provide fresh eggs daily. There are flowers bouncing around in the breeze, too, and, hey, there's a robin bopping around to its own beat as it searches for insects to eat. Okay, maybe the insects aren't going to have such a good day. Grin. But, it just goes to show how many genuinely positive, fun things we all may miss if we're bummed and just shutting out the world. Everyone can feel sad and pain but everyone also has the ability to find joy in even the smallest things. That's the lesson the girl's mother subtly shares, noting her own bad days. You won't be happy all the time but at least you'll learn how to work about such bad days.
Bottom line, a sweet read. Take time to check out the illustrations, too, as I'm sure you'll spy a few good things in life. Definitely something here for both parent and child, a double plus. Thanks #FreeSpiritPublishing for allowing me this early peek at this meaningful book. Now I think I'm going to go back to watching the world go by outside my own window to enjoy the smiles everyday life can bring. Smile.








