Sitting here with my own senior dog pressed against my side, this was a book I went into with both anticipation and trepidation. I first encountered Bliss, I'm sure, via his cartoons for The New Yorker magazine and though I enjoyed his artwork, never really paid much attention. That changed when I discovered he'd illustrated books for writer/comedian/actor Steve Martin. I recall then being taken by appearances of a dog called Penny but was never sure if Penny was real and, if so, who she belonged to.
Penny was Bliss' much adored dog. While this book would seem on the surface a memorial to her, I mean, that's her sweet face on the cover, it's really as much about Harry Bliss and his life and the people in it as his dog. Penny gets star billing, of course, which is only right. Originally more his then girlfriend, now wife's dog, we learn how she ultimately wiggled her way into his heart, but we also get to know the human side of Bliss, his career path, and those who've mattered to him, family, friends, and, yes, pets. So, it's really his memoir, the path made clearer by Penny's presence. Nor is it the tear jerker the title may suggest although, be prepared, Bliss shares his emotional goodbyes to not just Penny but his own family. In the process, therefore, we learn about the human behind the frequently humorous artwork, as well as the role one dog played in his life. And, yes, Steve Martin does make a couple appearances including mentions of his own bond with his dog Roger. Martin, who's rarely serious in public statements, turns thoughtful. In the process of reading, we get to enjoy countless drawings, many of Penny, as well as photos of family and friends throughout Bliss' life.
Bottom line, while focused on loss, the book is really about bonds we share as we live, yes, live. It's about life. His grief had me reaching out without really realizing it at moments for my own furry girl, but then he'd backtrack and share a real, usually humorous moment and I'd smile as I realized what I'd done. Don't let anyone tell you cartoonists can't write, in other words. I thought of a line I've heard used at frequent memorial services. To paraphrase, as painful as our loss in now, would you trade it for never having the chance to know them? Of course not. Bliss gets this and although his anguish over losing a beloved furry family member of some 15 years resonates loudly, so to does the theme of life goes on. He even introduces us to his new dog, Junior, still seemingly in puppy mode as the book was written. Somehow, I think Penny would approve. My sincere thanks to #CeladonBooks and author #HarryBliss for gifting me this meaning introduction to all things Penny and life. As long as we have our memories, "You Can Never Die".
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